For those of you that follow me on snapchat you will already be familiar with my rants and if you don't already follow me on snapchat I honestly don't know how to pass your spare time so let me help you out.. My snapchat name is Rosa4lyf.
Today my rant is about communication! communication! communication! that's actually a very long word to type why did I just type that three times... Anyways, communication! I feel as if this is one of the things we all struggle with. A lot of people tend to hide their emotions and intentions to avoid feeling embarrassed or vulnerable and I just think that is the most stupid thing you can ever do! I have been in a lot of situations (its always me) where a person will start acting differently or they will get angry at me but they won't communicate their emotions. Instead they will act off and wait for me to look into my crystal ball and magical find out what I did wrong. Now, This would be completely fine if it wasn't for the fact that I DON'T HAVE A BLOODY CRYSTAL BALL! In life you can not sit around and wait for people to read your mind and cater to your needs. If there is something bothering you you must always always always communicate how you feel no matter how small or stupid the topic may be. If you don't then the situation will only get worst, the other person will go about their daily routine completely oblivious to how you feel therefore you will be the only one hurting. Pride doesn't save you, pride doesn't protect you, pride doesn't solve the situation all pride does is harm you. Pride is emotional self-harm. Always try to confront the situation and communicate your feelings. If you are not good at explaining yourself then draw a picture, use a metaphor, reference a scene from a film or even better yet just send them song lyrics that relate to how you're feeling. Sometimes people tend to not say how they feel because they are unsure of exactly what it is they are feeling. It's ok to be confused but instead of acting like a little weirdo just com-mun-ni-cate that you are confused and see where it goes from there. Nothing gets solved from doing nothing! it never has and it never will. When there is a lack of communication between two or more everything falls apart and the longer you leave it the harder it will be to fix or confront. I know the word confront scares a lot of people, "I'm not a confrontational person", that's completely fine. To confront doesn't mean to start an argument or a fight it simply means to address a situation. You can address the situation as softly as you like. Just make sure you address it. Now the second part to communication is listening. If someone is trying to communicate with you, LISTEN TO THEM. It's super simply, you just sit there and concentrate on what they're saying. done. If what they're saying doesn't make sense let them know but be considerate as it probably took a lot of gut for them to open up to you like such. If you are the one with the problem, once you've communicated stop and listen to the response don't just ignore the other person and continue to complain about the same damn thing every single day like a solution wasn't offered to you ages ago. You can't play victim forever. You are in charge of your own happiness and sadness. Do not sit around and wait for others to come princess you. When you aren't happy with things speak up and seek a solution that will lead you to back to happiness. Happiness is all that matters but that's a rant for another day.
As for my outfit, I found this pretty maxi dress in the Petite section of Topshop. If you are a small girl like me and struggle to find a maxi dress that wont mop the floor as you walk then this is your lucky day. This dress is the perfect length stopping right at my ankles! (I'm 5'3) It is also elasticated making it super comfy and you guys are soooooooo lucky as it has dropped down to only £10 so go grab yourself one quick quick.
Link to the dress:square neck ribbed maxi dress
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