Often I feel like friendships aren't taken seriously. Most people especially in my generation make friends with all the wrong people for all the wrong reasons. Most people only want to be your friend if you've got your shit together and you're happy in life. The moment shit hits the fan you're no longer fun to hang out with. I believe that a friendship should be treated similar to a marriage. You should hold each other down through thick and thin. "I only want to be around positive vibes" thats great but life doesn't work like that. You need to understand that if you walk into somebody's life there will be hurdles. Not everyday will be positive vibes but of you are a real friend you will be accepting and try help your friend overcome whatever it is there going through and if you do not know how to help them then at least just make yourself available for moral support. Nothing annoys me more than seasonal friends, you're here when its sunny and when the rain begins to fall instead of you opening up an umbrella for us to share you go back into your house and leave me to get drenched. I learned to stop allowing shit "friends" back into my life after they left me standing. If you can not bare the storm then just get out mate.
Luckily, I've filtered my friends down so everyone thats left, I appreciate you, you smart, You loyal!
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